There were actually two subjects that came up when I was trolling around for some ideas regarding dating topics. Sometimes when I look around on the internet for ideas on what to write about for topics on dating it can be a little tricky. Fortunately there were a couple of events in the news that revolve around dating, why people stick together and what’s acceptable in a dating relationship.
The first dating topic actually has been going on for over twenty years now and just recently came to an end. I am referring to the fact that David Letterman just recently announced on his Late Show that he has married the mother of his son and the woman he has been dating for over twenty years now.
Over twenty years dating the same person? It’s not really dating at a certain point depending on what state you reside in it is considered a common law marriage after so many years. I just have to wonder why after twenty years would you even both to go through the “ceremony” or paperwork of being legally married. I mean twenty years you have lasted a lot longer than most marriages today and you have both shown that you are dedicated to each other at this point. Do you think there is really a need for a legal piece of paper to say that you are married after staying together for so long?
Speaking of dating and staying together that would be the other dating topic that I wanted to write about here. Dating and staying together when it’s clear that you should not be especially when there is abuse towards each other. I don’t care if it’s emotional or physical abuse these are relationships that I may never have an understanding for. The whole Chris Brown and Rhianna fiasco is the hot dating topic of discussion right now especially for the youth of today. I find it very disturbing when I read about how both young men and young women are viewing that case of domestic abuse and minimalizing the severity of this very common dating issue.
Somehow the concept of dating a person for the purpose of mutual respect, friendship and love has come to include physical and emotional abuse as part of the dating process? I don’t know when this happen but it has clearly reached a level of acceptance in society that I will never understand. Just the idea of dating a person that is abusive either emotionally or physically doesn’t sound appealing at all. On what level do you have to be to accept being abused by someone you are just dating? How did this type of behavior become acceptable to so many people and to the young people especially? I can only imagine the examples of dysfunctional dating that must be going on display on a daily basis for so many people to find this appalling behavior acceptable.
Seriously people dating is not meant to be a contact sport that leaves you with bruises, broken bones and emotional scars! It’s that willingness to accept these things as normal and part of the dating process is a really disturbing trend in society today. Now I realize that Brown and Rhianna are still kids themselves trying to function in a very grown up and fast paced lifestyle that would be stressful to normal adults. Still no excuse for domestic violence and for her to go back with him after all this non sense, sent the worst possible message to the youth of the world that like it or not look to these people as examples of what’s acceptable in a dating relationship.
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Get an attitude,dude.Too much politeness is not so good.Women like dominant men.Just get into a personality take makes you say “Yes I am the man.”Hold yourself too much excitation will spoil the fun.Be daring.Don’t fear of asking any thing to her.Dare to look in her eyes and talk.Have your upper hand.Just shit it out.Ask her questions rather than answering all time.Being suspicious is bad.Make things clear while you talk so that there’s nothing to hide for which you will regret later.Stop try talking like you are impressing her and just be yourself.
Talk in Strong gestures rather than being a wuss.
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