Dear Miss Manners:
I live in an apartment building that has a security door and intercom system on the main floor. When a date comes to pick me up, should he come all the way up to my unit or should he remain in the vestibule until I come down? Or should I buzz him into the lobby and say that I will be right down?
Does the answer vary depending upon how many dates I’ve had with him?
Hold on. The question of how many dates it should be before he goes to your apartment surely has to do with the other end of the date. And Miss Manners prefers not to be involved in that.
A gentleman picks up a lady at her front door, but you may, if you wish, define this as the front door of the building. Having him come up suggests that some form of hospitality will be offered, and Miss Manners has already excused herself from deciding that.
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